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What is SFLDG?

Founded in 1996, SFLDG has an educational mission with a once-a-month presentation of a kink/fetish/leather/BDSM skill or topical discussion, interview, or panel relevant to kinky guys and their allies. Every month, 60-150 people join us for 2 hours to meet new people, learn, and have fun. Come with a friend, or drop in on your own. With a huge audience of the most interesting folks in the Bay Area, we tend to be the best place to meet and socialize and hang out with other kinksters. You'll be welcome.

Check out our upcoming programs, meet the board of directors, or lend a hand by volunteering. New and curious guys might be interested in our mentoring program.

Upcoming Programs

Upcoming Programs
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Feb 26
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Unleash Your Inner Beast: Primal Play
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Mar 26
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Savor The Kink
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Occasional Thoughts

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LDG on MSNBC!
Orlando
Orlando

DON’T HIDE. Live proud. Play hard.

Remembering Tom
Remembering Tom

I am struck most notably by the sheer innocence of Tom's work. Yeah, there's fucking. There's fisting, There's cock sucking and rimming, to say nothing of bondage, flogging, and coercion. Pornographic? Absolutely. But innocent? I stand by my assertion.

Rich Stadtmiller's 10th Anniversary of Richtrove
Rich Stadtmiller's 10th Anniversary of Richtrove
Like Groundhog Day for Bondage: LDG Dungeon Tour A Success
Like Groundhog Day for Bondage: LDG Dungeon Tour A Success
What the Dungeon Offers Us
What the Dungeon Offers Us

Except we only rarely refer to it as a dungeon. It's “the playroom,” a name far more fitting to the role it fulfills in our lives.
Leather Titles, or The Mirror of Erised
Laura Antoniou: On "leather traditions" and "houses" and other things people try to sell you on

A question about "old leather traditions" and "houses" came up on someone else's FB page and I wrote this advice: There are no "old leather traditions." There are behaviors that individuals and small, isolated groups developed...

Why BDSM Doesn't Mean You're Crazy... anymore.
Why BDSM Doesn't Mean You're Crazy... anymore.

A few years ago, your consensual kinks—being spanked, fetishizing feet, the desire to be tied up while having sex, and anything else your perverted little mind can come up with—could have cost you everything...

Tell us what you think about Leather Titles

What questions would you like to hear at our January 2015 Program ARE LEATHER TITLES NECESSARY?

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